FLEMING – Thomas A., Jr. of East Meadow, NY on January 28, 2020, at the age of 85. Beloved husband of the late Marietta. Loving father of Susan (Will), Victoria McNeely (Fred), and Christine Alles (James). Cherished by his 9 grandchildren. Dear brother of Irene Cahill, Daniel Fleming, and the late Marianne Spader. Adored companion of Amy Thompson. Proud US Navy Veteran. Dedicated NYPD Police Detective. Family will receive friends Thursday, 2-5 pm and 7-9 pm, at the Charles J. O'Shea Funeral Homes, 2515 N. Jerusalem Rd. (Exit 25N SS PKWY) East Meadow, NY. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Friday, 9:45 am, at St. Raphael R.C. Church. Interment to follow at Calverton National Cemetery. www.osheafuneral.com